We Are Functioning Podcast

The Diagnosis Begins

Like many parents, we found ourselves facing unexpected challenges when our son’s behavior took a concerning turn during his college years. Initially, we brushed off his behavior as typical teenage rebellion and adjustment issues. However, as time passed, we began to notice subtle yet worrying changes in his demeanor and interactions. Our son’s struggles with roommates, academic performance, and erratic behavior raised red flags. We, like any loving parents, tried to make sense of these changes. Was it just youthful rebellion, or could it be something more serious?

Early Signs and Missed Opportunities

The signs of schizophrenia can often be subtle, and easily mistaken for typical adolescent behavior. Emotional changes, social withdrawal, and lack of focus were all present in their son’s behavior. However, attributing these signs to age-appropriate behavior or simple rebellion, we missed crucial opportunities for early intervention.

The Journey Unfolds

As our son’s behavior escalated, we faced increasing challenges in understanding and addressing his needs. Strange phone calls, bizarre interactions, and alarming incidents hinted at deeper issues beneath the surface. Even though mental illness was woven throughout our family, we struggled to connect the dots and grasp the severity of the situation.

Turning Point: Recognizing the Urgency

The situation reached a critical point when our son’s behavior became increasingly erratic and alarming. We received distressing calls from our son’s godfather, indicating that he had found a gun and a concerning note. This was the turning point that prompted us to take immediate action.

Seeking Support: Community Outreach for Psychiatric Emergencies (COPE)

Amidst the chaos and desperation, we reached out to COPE, a vital resource providing emergency intervention for psychiatric crises. However, navigating the system and convincing them of the urgency proved challenging. Our persistence and determination ultimately led to COPE’s intervention, providing crucial support and guidance during a time of crisis. The importance of mental health services like COPE and advocates for greater accessibility to such resources, play a pivotal role in providing timely intervention and support for individuals facing mental health crises.

The Journey Continues

Our story highlights the complexities and challenges of navigating the mental health landscape, especially when faced with a crisis. Our journey underscores the importance of early recognition, intervention, and access to mental health resources. We hope that sharing our journey can help families become one step closer to understanding and healing. Remember, you’re not alone in your journey. Help and support are available, and together, we can navigate the path towards healing and resilience.